MiltonShiv wrote:
glocklover wrote:
OK, she was an idiot who could not handle her affairs and bred indiscriminately before the money, and did the same after the money. I guess that what they mean by giving someone enough rope to hang themselves. This article covers just about every stereotype I can think of.
thenay wrote:
Lots of kids, lots of baby daddies, lots of useless cars..
Who wins the lottery and doesn't buy their own house and instead mortgages it :/
So this woman who's had no stability in her life, no one to raise her with set values, no decent education, no strong support system to guide her right, no way of knowing that sex doesn't necessarily mean caring and you should protect yourself, gets to be judged by you guys because she was given something she'd never been prepared for, had no idea how to handle and believed the people around her when they preyed on her naivetee?
Accident of birth dudes. Accident of birth. We could be her. You might want to dial back on your disdain and be grateful instead that your situation is different.

C'mon, when you deposit $10,000,000 the bank calls you..........a lot!
She made a conscious decision NOT to accept help when it was offered, and offered, and offered.
Even the greenest bank employee would have offered: invest in bank stocks and collect the 4% dividend for gross income $400,000 net income maybe $250,000 FOR LIFE, with $10,000,000 estate for your family.
Perhaps she did not feel deserving and got rid of it as quickly as possible, but she was absolutely offered advice.
Thank buh-jeebus some was tucked away for the kiddies. Hope they listen better than their ma.