Zoli&Kathy wrote:
Not to sound like Garth "Prepper" Turner, but the one thing that I believe WILL eventually cause this to crumble is that more and more people are becoming de-sensitized to being in debt, MASSIVE debt, as posted earlier. I love the general concepts of free enterprise, and understand well that it is key to the success of our economy. However, seeing more and more people stilt themselves up based on theoretically perpetually upward-sloping lines on a realtor's chart seems to me to be absolute lunacy. It defies logic, that there can be no limits.[/quote]
We are one of those "de-sensitized". Sold the house in May, downsized to an 1100 sqft condo in a nice area in Etobicoke and we are now mortgage free + had some money left for investing. We couldn't be happier. The house, the stuff you fill your huge house with, the mortgage and the commute weighs you down. You start feeling it when living in it but you truly feel how heavy it was when you get rid of it. It was hard to say goodbye to our gorgeous detached on a premium lot but it was 3 times bigger than what we need and I couldn't bear the fact that if one of us was out of job we wouldn't have been able to keep paying our expenses (car loans, mortgage, utilities, insurance, cable, etc). We are in our 40's so far from retirement and we choose to work, but technically, we can do whatever and freedom really feels good. I wish more families could realize that quality time is not tied to a 3000 sqft house or a big a$$ car. It's tied to the time a family can spend together, the time we spend on caring for our health and well-being, surrounded by friends, family and the community. I'd love to see a day when people realize that they are barely spending time at home (due to hockey practice, long commute, extra work) or if they spend time at home everybody is at a different corner of the big house, rarely connecting with each other. I'm not bashing on people with big houses since we all make our choices. People thought we were freakin' crazy to downsize and move to a condo. If you can afford the big house and the 2 SUV-s without too much sacrifice (like overtiming to keep your job, having a nice safety money in the bank account in case of a health issue or whatever) then it's fine. I just wanted enlighten people who have all these because "that's the norm" but they do worry all the time about their financials or not having a safety net. If you feel the "stuff" weighs you down, just take a deep breadth and make the change. Know your priorities. Btw, on the "equity in the house" and the "asset": it's like owning a stock. If you are only rich on paper and you are valuing your wealth on paper it's a slippery slope. It happened to us prior to this Milton house that the house prices were steadily increasing, then we bought the Milton house in January 2009 and wanted to sell the existing one. Guess what, the market turned really quickly. So this time we cashed in on the Milton house while the market was strong: we got 3 offers and sold $15K over asking. Ever since, I see comparables in our old neighborhood, all selling $30-40K below and stay on the market for 2-3 months. Apologies for the long post

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Your strategy as explained is very sound. What you didn't say was whether or not you have kids because an 1100 Sq. ft. condo can be a little confined. Instead of having residents in every corner of the 3000' house, you now have them on top of each other which creates a lack of privacy. If you don't have kids and you're in your 40s, then yes, this is the ideal scenario.